Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) Treatment in Tewksbury & South Portland

Learn how we treat borderline personality disorder at our Tewksbury, Massachusetts, and South Portland, Maine facilities.
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Living with borderline personality disorder (BPD) can make it difficult to regulate emotions, maintain stable relationships, develop a consistent sense of self, or cope with everyday stress. At Pillars Health Group, we provide compassionate, evidence-based borderline personality disorder treatment that helps adults build healthier coping skills, improve emotional regulation, and reduce behaviors that interfere with daily life. Whether you’ve recently been diagnosed or have been struggling with BPD symptoms for years, our experienced team is here to help you create lasting emotional stability and meaningful recovery.

Treating Borderline Personality Disorder in Tewksbury & South Portland

Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a mental health condition characterized by intense emotions, difficulty regulating mood, unstable relationships, fear of abandonment, and impulsive behaviors. Individuals living with BPD often experience rapid emotional shifts, challenges with self-image, and difficulty managing interpersonal relationships, all of which can significantly impact work, school, family life, and overall well-being.

At Pillars Health Group, we provide comprehensive outpatient treatment for adults living with borderline personality disorder. Our clinical team develops individualized treatment plans that combine evidence-based therapy, psychiatric care, medication management when appropriate, and practical coping skills to help individuals better manage symptoms and build healthier, more fulfilling lives.

Our borderline personality disorder treatment program is designed for individuals who:

  • Experience intense or rapidly changing emotions
  • Struggle with unstable or conflict-filled relationships
  • Have difficulty managing impulsive behaviors
  • Experience fear of abandonment or rejection
  • Need more support than traditional weekly therapy provides
  • Are transitioning from a higher level of care or seeking structured outpatient treatment

Do You Need Borderline Personality Disorder Treatment?

Many individuals living with borderline personality disorder struggle for years before receiving an accurate diagnosis. Symptoms are often misunderstood or mistaken for other mental health conditions. Professional treatment can provide the structure, support, and skills needed to improve emotional regulation and quality of life.

You may benefit from borderline personality disorder treatment if you experience:

  • Intense mood swings
  • Difficulty regulating emotions
  • Fear of abandonment
  • Unstable or intense relationships
  • Impulsive or risky behaviors
  • Chronic feelings of emptiness
  • Unstable self-image or identity
  • Frequent anger or irritability
  • Self-destructive behaviors
  • Difficulty trusting others
  • Episodes of emotional overwhelm
  • Symptoms that interfere with work, school, or relationships

If these symptoms have been present for an extended period and continue to impact your daily life, it may be time to seek professional evaluation and treatment.

Borderline Personality Disorder Symptoms We Treat

Borderline personality disorder affects every individual differently. Our clinicians work with adults experiencing a wide range of symptoms associated with BPD.

Emotional Dysregulation

Individuals with BPD often experience emotions that feel overwhelming or difficult to control. They may quickly shift between sadness, anger, anxiety, or frustration and have difficulty returning to an emotional baseline.

Relationship Difficulties

Many people with BPD experience unstable relationships characterized by intense attachment, fear of abandonment, conflict, or rapidly changing feelings toward others.

Impulsivity

Impulsive behaviors may include reckless spending, unsafe sexual behavior, substance use, binge eating, reckless driving, or other actions taken without fully considering the consequences.

Identity Disturbance

Individuals may struggle with an unstable sense of self, changing goals, values, or self-image, making it difficult to maintain confidence and consistency in daily life.

Self-Harm and Suicidal Thoughts

Some individuals with BPD engage in self-harming behaviors or experience recurring suicidal thoughts, particularly during periods of emotional distress. Our team provides compassionate, evidence-based care focused on improving safety, emotional regulation, and long-term recovery.

How Our Borderline Personality Disorder Program Works

Every person’s experience with borderline personality disorder is unique, which is why treatment begins with a comprehensive clinical assessment.

During your assessment, our team will evaluate:

  • Your symptoms
  • Mental health history
  • Medical history
  • Current functioning
  • Treatment goals
  • Any co-occurring mental health conditions, such as depression, anxiety, PTSD, eating disorders, or substance use disorders

Based on your assessment, we’ll recommend the outpatient program that best fits your needs.

Some individuals benefit from our Full-Day Outpatient Treatment Program, while others are appropriate for our Half-Day Outpatient Treatment Program. Throughout treatment, your care plan is regularly reviewed and adjusted as you make progress.

Our Treatment Approach for Borderline Personality Disorder

Our multidisciplinary team utilizes evidence-based treatment strategies that help individuals regulate emotions, strengthen relationships, improve distress tolerance, and build healthier coping skills for long-term recovery.

Treatment may include:

Evidence-Based Therapies

Our clinicians utilize therapies supported by research, including dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), mindfulness-based interventions, emotion regulation training, distress tolerance skills, and interpersonal effectiveness training.

Psychiatry

Our psychiatric providers conduct comprehensive evaluations and collaborate closely with therapists to provide coordinated, individualized care.

Medication Management

While there is no medication specifically approved to treat borderline personality disorder, medications may help manage co-occurring symptoms such as anxiety, depression, mood instability, or sleep disturbances. Our psychiatric providers carefully evaluate whether medication may be beneficial and monitor progress throughout treatment.

Group Therapy

Group therapy provides opportunities to practice DBT skills, improve communication, build healthier relationships, and connect with others facing similar challenges in a supportive environment.

Family Support

When appropriate, family members may participate in education and support services that improve communication, strengthen relationships, and help loved ones better understand borderline personality disorder.

Other Clinical Services

Depending on individual needs, treatment may also include psychoeducation, stress management, relapse prevention for co-occurring substance use disorders, crisis planning, mindfulness training, and coordination with outside providers.

Our Levels of Care for Borderline Personality Disorder Treatment

Pillars Health Group offers flexible outpatient programs that allow individuals to receive structured treatment while continuing to live at home. During your assessment, our admissions team will recommend the level of care that best fits your needs.

Full-Day Outpatient Treatment (PHP)

Our Full-Day Outpatient Treatment Program (Partial Hospitalization Program) provides several hours of structured treatment each day, up to five days per week. This level of care is ideal for individuals who need intensive support without inpatient hospitalization.

Example of Full-Day Schedule for Borderline Personality Disorder Treatment

Time Activity
09:00 am Check-In and Goal Setting
09:45 am Group Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
10:45 am Group Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT)
12:30 pm Lunch Break
01:00 pm Journaling
01:30 pm Psychoeducation, Clinical Skills Development
02:45 pm Wrap-Up
03:30 pm Check-Out

Half-Day Outpatient Treatment (IOP)

Our Half-Day Outpatient Treatment Program (Intensive Outpatient Program) provides several hours of treatment per day while allowing participants to maintain work, school, or family responsibilities. Half-Day Treatment takes place between three to five days per week, depending on each client’s unique needs.

Example of Half-Day Schedule for Borderline Personality Disorder Treatment

Morning Program

Time Activity
09:00 am Check-In and Goal Setting
09:45 am Group Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
10:45 am Group Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT)
12:30 pm Check-Out

Evening Program

Time Activity
05:30 pm Check-In and Goal Setting
06:30 pm Group Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT)
07:30 pm Group Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
09:00 pm Check-Out

What to Expect During Outpatient Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) Treatment

Beginning treatment for borderline personality disorder (BPD) can feel overwhelming, but our goal is to make the process as supportive, structured, and comfortable as possible.

When you arrive:

  • You don’t need to bring anything special
  • We’ll guide you through the intake and admission process step by step
  • You’ll meet members of your treatment team
  • Your individualized treatment plan and schedule will be reviewed

Treatment length varies depending on your goals, symptom severity, and clinical needs. Some individuals complete treatment within several weeks, while others benefit from longer-term structured outpatient support before transitioning to traditional weekly therapy.

We also offer free insurance verification before admission so you can better understand your coverage and any potential costs.

Frequently Asked Questions

Why Choose Pillars Health Group for BPD Treatment?

Choosing the right treatment provider is an important step toward stabilizing emotions, improving relationships, and building long-term coping skills. At Pillars Health Group, we combine clinical expertise with compassionate, individualized care designed to help adults manage borderline personality disorder and improve overall quality of life.

Patients choose us because of our:

  • Experienced multidisciplinary team of licensed mental health professionals
  • Specialized outpatient programs for adults with BPD and co-occurring conditions
  • Individualized treatment plans developed through comprehensive assessments
  • Collaborative approach integrating therapy, psychiatry, and medication management when appropriate
  • Strong focus on evidence-based treatments such as DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy)
  • Supportive group environment that encourages accountability, emotional regulation, and growth
  • Practical skill-building focused on distress tolerance, interpersonal effectiveness, and emotional stability
  • Accredited programs that meet high standards for quality and patient care

Our goal isn’t simply to reduce symptoms of BPD—it’s to help individuals build emotional stability, strengthen relationships, improve self-understanding, and create lasting patterns that support long-term recovery.

Get BPD Treatment in Tewksbury, Massachusetts & South Portland, Maine

If borderline personality disorder symptoms are interfering with your work, relationships, or daily life, you don’t have to navigate them alone. The experienced team at Pillars Health Group is here to help you understand your options and find the level of care that’s right for you.

Take the first step today by calling our team at 855-828-0575 to speak with a caring admissions specialist. We offer free insurance verification to help you understand your coverage before beginning treatment.

Get treatment at either of our outpatient locations:

With the right treatment, individuals living with borderline personality disorder (BPD) can improve emotional regulation, build more stable and healthy relationships, develop stronger coping skills, and create greater balance in their daily lives. We’re here to support you every step of the way.
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